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Reading: Winning...an unhealthy obsession?
Like hundreds of millions of viewers around the world, I have been watching the Olympics on television over the last week or so. Cycling, weightlifting and athletics are the sports that capture my imagination. The technical skill and mental capabilities of the athletes astounds me. How do they move so fast, throw so far, lift so high? In most cases, years and years of preparation go before a single moment, an opportunity to excel, to win.
Winning is important to competitors, and to nations. You just have to look at the response of those athletes that expected to win but didn't. At what point does winning become an unhealthy obsession? Winning needs to be held in context. Is the ultimate goal to vanquish others, to prove a point, or to fully realise one's one potential?
Winning is important to competitors, and to nations. You just have to look at the response of those athletes that expected to win but didn't. At what point does winning become an unhealthy obsession? Winning needs to be held in context. Is the ultimate goal to vanquish others, to prove a point, or to fully realise one's one potential?
I believe humans from a young age, have a subtle mind programming done by society and parents to ``win `` in order to be seen as ``worthy``.
The man or a woman ``wins `` when they get successful in their profession (good job title) or a good looking spouse who has created some personal wealth .
The teenager wins when they are most popular at school
The athlete wins when they get that gold medal at the Olympics
The mother wins when her children get into a top school
The rich win when they have that mega million dollar home with the million dollar view ............................