Is it better to give, or to receive?

Do you know the origin of the well-known saying 'it's better to give than receive'? This phrase (from the Bible) calls our focus into question: are we better to have an outward mindset for the benefit of others, or to concentrate on self? This dilemma has been front of mind over the last twenty-four hours. The following list is a snapshot of the important giving and receiving tasks that I need to complete over the next seven days:

• This morning: Re-read parts of my doctoral thesis, working through various scenarios that might be raised during the oral examination. This is a receiving task—it's for my benefit.
• This afternoon: Start work on the slide deck to accompany my paper to be presented in Brussels next week. This is a preparation task, ahead of a giving activity.
• This evening: Fly to Hamilton to ahead of presenting on the Institute of Directors' Company Directors Course tomorrow. The task at hand is threefold—to present the Strategy Day material, facilitate discussion and share insights. This is primarily a giving task.
• Wednesday: At the home office, making final preparations for the oral examination.
• Thursday: Drive to Palmerston North, for the oral examination of my doctoral research. After three-and-a-half years effort, it all comes down to this meeting. No pressure!
• Friday: Finalise the slide deck for the EIASM presentation and write a letter to confirm an important speaking and facilitation engagement—both after some reflection on the outcome of the previous day's activity, no doubt.
• Monday 26: Leave for Brussels via London, to attend and speak at the 12th European Institute of Advanced Management Studies Corporate Governance Workshop. Summaries of this giving and receiving activity will be posted here later next week.

So, a busy seven days lies in wait, with some important giving and receiving tasks along the way. My week highlights a dilemma faced by many busy people: where should one's priorities be placed? All of the tasks are important—but are any more important? If compromises are required, what should prevail? Better to spend time preparing for the teaching and speaking commitments, or the examination—to give or to receive? If you are facing a similar challenge this week, what yardstick will you use to make your choices? ​